I received this yesterday on facebook in a message from my friend M. I love her to death for telling me like this. She is one of my best friends and this proves it:
I written and rewritten this message a million times now. I was going to call you, but didn't want to put you on the spot...
I want you to be one of the first people to know that I found Tuesday that I am pregnant. Believe me when I say, while I am so excited, I so much wanted you and Miles to be the first. I love you guys so much and believe with all my heart that God will bless you with babies and that you will be amazing parents. I am honored to have you in my life and so glad that you will (hopefully) have a place in our child's heart and life.
I know that your surgery is coming up (praying you get pregnant this cycle so you don't need it!) and I'm so excited for you and Miles.
I wanted you to know so that you didn't A. hear it through the grapevine and B. hear it on the spot and feel like you had to hide the hurt. I hate that this will probably make you hurt. For that I pray that our friendship grows stronger and that God would comfort you and surround you with supportive people until your baby comes.
I understand completely if you need time. We will not plan on coming tonight if that is easier for you - please just let me know how I can support you. Again - D & I love you and Miles so much and you are in our prayers more often than you may think.